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Abortion Protesters Are Always Men, A Photo Essay

September 5, 2014



On Twitter today, journalist Irin Carmon shared a photo of a reopening of an abortion clinic in McAllen, Texas. Protesters who showed up appeared to be mostly men. I’m sensing a trend. I give to you the faces of abortion protesters. These two are in training. Images: The Daily Beast, Irin Carmon Twitter, Left in [...]

I Was Ready For My Kids To Go Back To School–And Then They Left

September 4, 2014


first day kindergarten photo

Tell friends you’re totally not nervous at all for the first day of school. This is about your kids. Not you. Your sister in law asks, “Do you have your camera ready?” You’re like, “Why do I need a camera? It’s the first day of school. We have like 300 more days exactly like this [...]

Posted in: Kids

7 Feminist Conversations We Should Have To Wrap Up The Summer

September 2, 2014


Feminist and columnist Jessica Valenti shows how misandry is done in her "I bathe in male tears" (image: Jessica Valenti's twitter)

1. We have a police brutality issue in our country. Black men and boys are targets. Black parents are already having, and have had, that “talk” with their kids about how to avoid getting shot by police. How do we deal with this? How does this cycle end? 2. Instead of obsessing over Jennifer Aniston’s [...]

My Hair Has Never Looked Better–And I’m Addicted To The Kim Kardashian Game

July 29, 2014


Me in LA meeting with Kim's stylist. Doesn't my hair look terrific?

I’m completely addicted to the Kim Kardashian: Hollywood game. I think I lost my mind. How cute is my hair? First, you should know that I’m not a gamer. But this game feeds your ego and draws on your competitive nature. I WANT to get to the next level successfully. With Kim’s approval. Listen to [...]

Rethinking The Grudge

July 20, 2014



Women in my family are kind, generous, perceptive and forgiving. Turns out, we’re not. Women in my family hold grudges. When polling the women in my brood, I found we are all prickly, easily insulted and quick to dismiss a person who has crossed us. A person doesn’t have to do much. They can make us [...]

Migrant Children Flood Border, How Do We Protect Them?

July 9, 2014


NOGALES, AZ - JUNE 18:  Two young girls watch a World Cup soccer match on a television from their holding area where hundreds of mostly Central American immigrant children are being processed and held at the U.S. Customs and Border Protection Nogales Placement Center on June 18, 2014, in Nogales, Arizona.  Brownsville, Texas, and Nogales, have been central to processing the more than 47,000 unaccompanied children who have entered the country illegally since Oct. 1. (Photo by Ross D. Franklin-Pool/Getty Images)

My son doesn’t know how to do his own laundry. He doesn’t know how to make his own dinner. He’s 10 years old. He’s about the same age as the thousands of children who have crossed the border into the US over the past year in hopes to find refuge from gangs, from poverty, from [...]

Posted in: Child Migrants, Kids

Men Have a Sense of Humor–Unless Women Are Telling Joke

July 2, 2014


Maya Petersen's selfie on Instagram that prompted her resignation.

We are used to high school boys posting cruel, abusive photos on social media. We’ve seen star athletes turn rape into twisted comedy events on Twitter. We’ve seen men use social media to make lists (e.g., the Thot List) to harass women. We’ve seen revenge porn sites. But when senior high school president Maya Peterson instagrammed a photo of herself in a [...]

A Lesson About Body Image In Booty Songs

June 20, 2014


baby's got back

While driving with my 10 and 5-year-old kids to my sister-in-law’s on Long Island through sluggish traffic on the Cross Island Parkway, I succumbed to their requests to hear the “Wiggle” song (“Your booty like two planets, Go ahead and go ham sandwich”) by Jason Derulo and Snoop Dogg. My kids danced and sang to [...]

Posted in: Body Image, Kids