Separating kids based on gender is nothing new in schooling–boarding schools and private schools have been doing it forever. But according to a new article in USA Today, with boys drop out rates plummeting, gender separation is becoming a new trend across the US. Over 100 schools alone popped up in South Carolina alone and over 500 emerged across the country.
The concept is based on the different learning styles of boys and girls as well as cuts down on “distractions such as flirting.” In one class in Missouri, the boys class does a “camping” theme and the girls do an “under the sea” theme. And according to the article they’re even separated based on athletic interests.
When preparing for a test, the boys may go for a run, or engage in some other activity, while the girls are more likely to do calming exercises, such as yoga.
Because as everyone knows, girls only like “calming” exercises. I wonder if they teach the boys how to build lamps in shop class and teach the girls to wash dishes in home ec as well?
The ACLU, unwilling to wait and see if the next step would be to paint the girls’ classroom pink and the boys’ classroom blue, decided to launch a national campaign, Teach Kids, Not Stereotypes, in May and sent cease-and-desist letters to school districts in Maine, West Virginia, Alabama, Mississippi and Virginia. ACLU legal director Doug Bonney says there’s no evidence that splitting up boys and girls works–in fact, he says it only increases sexism.
“This isn’t the right step to address higher dropout rates by boys,” Bonney said. “They promote false stereotypes about sex-based differences that don’t exist. Promoting sex stereotypes can harm both girls and boys.”
And then if that doesn’t sell you on the sexism issue–because the founder of the Pennsylvania-based National Association for Single Sex Public Education, argues that the controversial schooling is “about breaking down gender stereotypes, not promoting them”–then maybe information from a psychologist will. Says the article:
Diane F. Halpern, a former president of the American Psychological Association, co-authored a review of studies last fall in the journal Science that found research doesn’t support the benefits of single-sex education. Additionally, there are lots of problems whenever you segregate people into groups, Halpern said.
“Stereotyping increases so we really do have lots of data that says it’s just not supported,” she said.
With all this said, my son still thinks that boys are stronger than girls–but only when it comes to sports, because as all the stats show (and which is the number one reason the single-sex education is being pushed) boys are struggling.
Wouldn’t it make more sense that schools employ the system that, say, my husband’s school uses: inclusion learning. My husband, who is a special education teacher at the New York City Lab School runs a classroom with a co-teacher; they split the class (up to at least 35 kids) based on learning styles, aptitude and ability. My husband takes the kids who need more help and the other teacher is more general ed. The beauty of the inclusion learning is that it’s collaborative. The kids learn from each other.
Maybe these single-gender schools–if they really believe certain kids need a tailored education (i.e., running before class or yoga)–should focus on policies that are based on choice and performance rather than gender.
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Emily Reed
July 10, 2012
Awesome post Hayley! It’s a great topic to bring up, my daughter has several friends who are going to an all boys high school next year. Im curious to see if their outlook on girls is obstructed after being in such a boy focused enviorment.
Hayley Krischer
July 10, 2012
Yes, report back and tell us their experience, will you?
Muriel Rock
July 10, 2012
I attended an all girl’s seminary for high school and it was the most empowering experience of my life. It was an incredible experience to see women in the every available leadership role and to be able to participate in it myself. It was freeing to speak freely and to be able to focus on history or literature related to women. So although I see your points regarding inclusive learning, I would not change my own experience for the world. I look back on it with appreciation and awe that I had the opportunity to be in such an environment.
Hayley Krischer
July 10, 2012
Muriel, thanks for your comment. I believe that the concept of all-girls or all-boys isn’t the problem. In this situation they’re separating the classes based on sex and it appears to have a different impact. For instance, did you feel like your classroom was especially geared towards girls stereotypes? I get the feeling that it wasn’t. In fact, having a focus on women’s history or lit in high school sounds pretty fantastic–the kind of education that boys would benefit from as well.
Clay Smythe
July 10, 2012
Try this amendment to your most significant sentence: “Wouldn’t it make more sense that businesses employ an inclusion hiring system based on performance as opposed to gender if they’re truly concerned and dedicated (to) the varying levels of applicants’ abilities?”
Or college admissions, or Title IX, or any artificial structure aimed at gender-based representation versus meritocracy.
I doubt that you like the amended statement given the prevalance of glass ceilings in our society and internationally, mind you. You support gender-based selection practices.
Please. Ask the all-girls school if they are satisfied with their gender policies as advancing female leadership and learning. Find one who would rather be co-ed. Single-sex schools are one of the best-kept secrets in elementery and secondary school education. The unique environments contribute directly to their both objective and long-running success.
Hayley Krischer
July 11, 2012
A) I never said that I support gender-based selection practices. B) This has to do with my opinion of how boys and girls are pigeon-holed into gender stereotypes. I don’t doubt that some of this learning could benefit for all students and that schools could use some of these practices. But when you’re talking about separating the children in the school based on their sex, that doesn’t compute for me as good practice because boys and girls learn from each other. Of course for every study shown that single-sex separation in schools works, there is another study that says it promotes sexism. Like any study, my guess is that there are ways to incorporate some of the elements that are successfully targeted towards boys and targeted towards girls.
Lastly, do not come on my blog and give me a condescending “Please.” We appreciate that you disagree. We don’t tolerate rudeness.
Miriam Novogrodsky
July 11, 2012
Hi Clay,
You know, there are plenty of very liberal, very wealthy families who agree with you re the unique environment and the “something special” about an all boys or all girls school. They spend an awful lot of money making sure their children recieve the benefit of a same-sex education. I’ve heard that their daughters find their voices and are not inhibited and that their sons learn to focus, and focus better because they are not distracted by girls. And you know, these may be truths. They may be uncomfortable, sexist truisms – but I like to think of them as leftovers from an era we’ve not yet shed. So, Call me an idealist, but I believe that in order to move forward as a society where men and women, girls and boys, can speak and learn and share ideas with each other, we should aim for education in the same room, same school, etc.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts-
best,
miri
Joe
December 25, 2012
I go to an all boys school and I do notice a significant decrease in the amount of distractions there are in class. The school has absolutely no “cliques” and everyone gets along perfectly. There have been no recorded fights on campus, everyone has a 3.0 GPA or higher and all of the students are proud of there school.